Random Thought: April 10
Taiwanese people think it is not auspicious if you get married at the age of 29, 39, 49, or any age ended with 9. I am 26 now (27 in August), but 28 at nominal age according to Taiwanese tradition. Therefore, the elder tend to tell me, “Get married as soon as possible”. Also, because I am female, it’s better for me go get married before 30, or I will be too old (wow, pretty scary!!).
Does it really matter? Well, at least not for me.
The point is not age but the person you’re getting married to, isn't it? And it won’t be a big deal if I live alone but happily.
The opinion of "getting married as soon as possible" is changing nowadays in Taiwan. Though several of my classmates in university got married right after we graduated, not everyone thinks as the same way now. Some of my friends have a long-term and serious relationship, but they don’t feel it necessary to go to the step of marriage. Others keep dating and enjoying the freedom of being single.
As for me, well, I don’t see any advantages of marriage yet until now (if you are reading this article, maybe you can give me some). And I haven’t met someone who makes me feel it awesome if we get married. It’s still hard to tell if I will get married before 29 or just in my lifetime. But it is the most important to follow what you really want inside your heart. Besides, just remember to think twice before you leap.
9 comments:
Iris,
I think this was great! I have had many women students say much the same thing. I think find the right person, don't worry about a year ending in a nine. It will work out.
Keep up the good work.
PeterH
hi Peter,
Thanks for your comment. Yes you are right. :)
Iris
Age is relative. 50 or 100 years ago, people might consider that 30 years old is already old. But now, some consider that 40 is a new 30 years old.
Look at Madonna, Demi Moore or even my self .. :)
Beni Bevly http://www.overseasthinktankforindonesia.com
hi Beni,
You are right. Age is also a critical reason. And also you looks very young on your photo. But I am wondering now since you compare yourself together with Madonna and Demi.....:p
Iris
I think you should always try to do what feels right for you. You can not live your life by what other people think. Being a good and friendly person is what is important. If your happy what your doing, no need to rush to make changes!!
caplondon
http://lasvegasfun.blogspot.com/
hi caplondon,
yes good point. I think that's just want I'd better do. :)
Iris
JALEBI Music Flash Message:
Namaste! Hare Krsna! :)
Well Iris, you are wondering about getting married and making a commitment! I am an English teacher and a singer...but I am also a nun! What do you think about my choice? (smile)
I am completely celibate and have been for most of my adult life! No lovers, male or female! Why? Because I have dedicated my mind, body and soul to God! My heart belongs to the BIG DADDY! (smile)
It was a NATURAL choice for me! And what a relief when I finally realized....around your age....that I really was not interested in a "normal" life! This time around.... in this reincarnation.... I wanted to break the barriers completely and belong to GOD and only Him!
More than 20 years have passed since I fell in love with God....and I have NEVER regretted a single day! :)
Here is a little humor I found that I would like to share with you!
10 ADVANTAGES OF NOT HAVING A LOVER.....
1. Save time.
2. Can sleep well.
3. Don't have to bother about missed calls..
4. Don't have to worry about how you look..
5. Can eat in any restaurant.
6. No boring SMSs in the middle of night..
7. Can talk with all gals or guys.....
8. You won't hear "Aaw.. YOU are dull today"..
9. Can go anywhere with anyone..
10 Don't have to listen to same old crap jokes..
BONUS:- YOU will live a long life.......so be aware of a LOVER !
Iris, of course I am just joking a little with you! lol
Being celibate for spiritual reasons was and is MY PERSONAL CHOICE.... but it is an alternative. A very lovely and eternally....satisfying alternative!
God awaits you with open arms! Take His hand and walk together in love....FOREVER! :)
Namaste! Hare Krsna!
Shirley Marie Bradby (MiraBai Devi Dasi)
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hi Shirley Marie Bradby,
wow, what a comment. Thanks for your lovely words.
I think I am the kind of person who doesn't really want to do something just because he/she has to. I choose what kind of person I want to be, what kind of life style I want. So the matter is not always just about relationship. Anyway, it must have taken you much time to write the comment. I appreciate it. Feel free to comment anytime!!
Iris
JALEBI Music Flash Comment:
Namaste, Iris!
Thank you for appreciating my comment! It is a pleasure to read your blog so I felt inspired to respond! :)
I have also subscribed to your blog so that I can know what you are up to....in real time! (smile)
I like the fact that you are presenting your culture in such an intersting and attractive way! Learning about different cultures let us appreciate each other as human beings and as spirit souls!
In fact when I was a child I used to live in Okinawa, then I went to school and grew up in Europe and I finaly went to university in the United States and for years now I have been very interested in Vedic and modern Indian culture!
So as you can see I love to learn and experience different cultures and your blog lets me travel without ever leaving my apartment! Thank you for all that you are doing to spread peace and harmony around the world!
Bye for now! : )
Hare Krsna! Namaste, baby!
Shirley Marie Bradby (MiraBai Devi Dasi)
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