Concern or Control??

I am not that keen to some people who try to make good friends with me in a extremely short time. One of the characteristics of these people is that they keep asking you personal questions no matter if you like to answer it.

For this kind of people, being good friends means caring about you much (sometimes even too much) after they thought they've already known you as much as possible.

One of the sentences they usually like to say is, "please don't do this or that because I concern about you."

It is always tricky to tell from being concerned to being controlled in cases like this.

I still believe that there are some really good friends who care about me. They might suggest something helpful and useful rather than push me into something. Moreover, my good friends would listen to me about the whole situation and then say something, not just hurrying to judge before knowing everything.

I guess this kind of people like to show others that they are really smart and they can deal with any difficult problems. Whatever they hear, they try to impress you like that. But they don't really care if they give you the right suggestion because you don't even finish the first paragraph!!

Another reason I don't like this kind of people is that gossiping, gossiping, and gossiping. When they pretend to care about something of you, they are trying to talk behind you after 5 minutes. Looking forward to the bright side, you have someone always willing to help you if you want to play tricks to the whole office. :p